One Face

The passing of a saint is both a sad and happy occasion. One of my Christian brothers lost his older brother earlier this year. I attended the memorial service, as did many others, in support of those for whom the loss was most personal.

The service was well attended, a tribute to the family and to the man. There were sad moments and light hearted ones as well. It was a fitting expression of honor and respect.

As part of the celebration of a life lived for Christ and others, my friend stood to tell about the life of his brother. There were stories of childhood days and events from their young-adult years. We heard about the gentleman’s faithful service in his church and with his fellow church members, meeting the needs of both local families and a needy community on a South Dakota reservation.

At some point during the presentation of his brother’s eulogy, I heard my friend make a statement that caught my ear. He had many kind words to say and several fond remembrances to relate. But it was when he came to the subject of his brother’s integrity that he commented, “[first name] had one face and you saw it.” It was a phrase that stuck with me as I left the church house that day.

What an outstanding compliment! There was nothing deceptive in this man. He presented himself as he was and did so consistently. Perhaps this one phrase went long to explain why so many other accolades could be offered at his memorial.

Wouldn’t you like others to have that same sense as they consider your truthfulness and honesty, whatever your interactions with them may be? For myself I can say I would. “He has one face and you saw it.”

Tim Gramly
Education Pastor
South Haven Baptist Church
December 15, 2009